Some travel memories are shaped by the places we go, but often, the ones we remember most involve the people we meet along the way. Whether it’s a trip abroad or a local escape, forming unexpected friendships on a holiday can enhance the experience, whether you’re travelling solo, as a couple or in a group.
Samantha Pillay, CEO of ekko, has firsthand knowledge of this and says many lasting friendships have started through a casual encounter on holiday. “The banter on a game drive or sightseeing tour, striking up a conversation at the pool or the simple kindness of a stranger offering directions can lead to surprising connections that enrich your entire holiday and beyond.”
Travelling offers different experiences for everyone – some may enjoy quiet exploration or quality time with companions, while others look forward to meeting new people along the way. But, if you’re not a natural extrovert, or you’re travelling solo, how do you go about it?
Pillay shares a few practical approaches you can employ, whether you’re in Cape Town or Croatia.
1. Break the Ice at the Breakfast Buffet
The breakfast buffet is a goldmine for casual chats, especially if you sit at a shared table or linger over your coffee. You’d be surprised how many conversations start in a buffet queue, whether you’re asking for recommendations, sharing a friendly smile, or bonding over a shared love of fresh fruit or delicious pastries.
2. Stay Where the Action Is
Your accommodation can make or break the vibe. Opt for places with communal spaces, whether it’s a shared braai area, common room, or lounge. Resorts that offer group activities, guesthouses with long tables, or self-catering units in leisure estates often have natural touchpoints for meeting new people.
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3. Connect Through the Things You Love
If you’re passionate about an activity like surfing, birding, hiking, yoga, coffee or wine appreciation, find a local group, class or spot where like-minded people gather. When you’re doing something you love, you’ll naturally attract others who feel the same. And that’s half the conversation sorted.
4. Frequent the Same Spot
If you’re on a work-cation, try using a co-working space or visiting the same coffee shop daily. Familiar faces breed trust and break the ice – and after a few days, a smile turns into a conversation. Plus, regulars will often introduce you to the local rhythm and after-hours spots.
5. Ask for Recommendations
Asking locals where to go or what to eat isn’t just about getting great tips – it’s a genuine way to spark conversation. Whether it’s the best bunny chow in Durban, a little-known sunset spot in Cape Town, the best patisserie in Paris or a hidden taverna in Santorini, people love sharing insider tips about their city. It’s not just about finding hidden gems – it’s about starting a conversation. That quick question might just lead to a travel tip you’ll never forget, a story worth sharing, or a new friend.
6. Join Group Activities or Tours
Friendships forged on the road have a magic all of their own – formed outside of routine, sparked by spontaneity, and often held together by great vibes and unforgettable shared memories and stories. The best part? You never know who you might meet. A future travel buddy. A business connection. Or simply someone to laugh with over a local brew.
“ So, next time you head off on a trip, leave a little room in your plans for unexpected encounters – the best stories often begin with a simple hello and a stranger turning into a lifelong friend,” concludes Pillay.
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